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This past summer, our young women embarked on two Kairos adventures: a Service Adventure Trip in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, and a Canoe Trip through the Sylvania Wilderness.

Serving with Joy in North Carolina

In mid-June, we packed a van with 9th and 10th-grade girls and headed south to partner with our brothers and sisters from People of Joy, a new community associated with our Sword of the Spirit network. Basecamping at Pilot Mountain State Park, we spent our first days in retreat and preparation before diving into two service projects:

Our high schoolers hosted a ‘Life in the Holy Spirit’ Day Retreat for the People of Joy junior high girls. From MCing and leading worship to sharing personal testimonies and praying over the younger girls, each Kairos girl stepped into significant leadership roles during the retreat. Watching them contribute and grow in their unique gifts was a true highlight.

Next, the team served the People of Joy community retreat by stepping up to cook, clean, and provide childcare – allowing parents and leaders to fully participate in their sessions. They prepared nourishing, scrumptious meals and cared for 11 children with endless energy (and plenty of creek-exploring!). It was a whirlwind, and our girls stretched themselves to give generously. Living up to their name, People of Joy brought immense warmth and hospitality to our time together.

Building Character in the Sylvania Wilderness

At the end of June, our 7th and 8th-grade girls headed north to the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. A wilderness canoe trip is the ultimate test of teamwork: the girls mastered strategic packing, camp setup, paddling, and portaging. On the trail, you learn to move as a unit – sharing the load until the work is done, looking out for one another, and experiencing the true give-and-take of Christian community.

Your support makes these landmark adventures possible – spaces where Jesus is Lord, lifelong friendships in Christ are built, virtue is forged, and God is worshiped as our Creator and Giver of all good things! We are so grateful to be on mission with you!

For the past five years, Kairos has been hosting an online Parents Forum addressing challenges posed by the modern cultural environment we live in. This year, our topic was Raising Free Sons and Daughters. In an age of personal media devices and cultural individualism, both parents and youth struggle to live a life that is free and generous amidst our modern culture. As Christians, we know that freedom is the capacity and ability to choose for what is truly good, and true freedom is ordered toward truth, goodness, and human flourishing.

Our culture, however, often presents a thinner version of freedom – equating happiness with unlimited choice and self-expression. Passive media consumption erodes our ability to create and freely use our time. Digital AI, when overused, can diminish our capacity for critical thinking and pull us away from what is real and human. A growing trend of safety-first consciousness is removing our children’s ability to grow resilience. Jonathan Haidt (The Anxious Generation) talks about the dangers of this over-emphasis:

“Children require exposure to setbacks, failures, shocks, and stumbles in order to develop strength and self-reliance.”

Scripture reminds us that perseverance and maturity are forged through trials, not avoidance of them – “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” James 1:2-4. Freedom and safety are not mutually exclusive, but the conditions you have to create to guarantee safety are at odds with the opportunities needed to develop freedom.

And yet, we have great hope! Enriching friend groups and family life can provide a place to counteract these challenges. Here
are some ideas you could try:

• Ask the question – ‘What are the inputs forming my child’s understanding of themselves, the world, and God?’. Find stories that point toward virtue and truth, and surround them with real-life models of mature, faithful people.

 

• Look for fun opportunities to build freedom. Aim for age-appropriate opportunities, involving some level of risk, responsibility and/or boredom. This allows youth to practice choosing the good, even when it involves struggle or failure.

 

• Find time for more relaxed, open conversation. Youth should not feel the need to guard everything they say or be defensive, they should be open handed and free in conversation.

We hope these simple yet profound steps can draw our youth closer to a life that is truly free, joyful and courageous in serving the Lord! As always, thank you for your support!

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

I am pleased to share with you this year’s annual programs brochure. As usual, the main goal here is simply to communicate the details of our upcoming lineup of trips and retreats, but there are a few other things inside that we think you’ll enjoy.

On pages 5 and 6 you can read about what Kairos has been up to in the “non-trip” space, specifically our parent and youth worker offerings. On page 21 we share an extended testimony from a former Gapper about how her Gap year helped to bring her deeper into the “glorious freedom of the children of God.” Finally, beginning on page 23 we present a write-up on “bridging after high school,” which can be a very helpful kickstarter for that season of decisions.

On behalf of the Kairos team, thank you so much for all that you do to serve the young people of the Sword of the Spirit. Whether you are a parent, a community leader, or a youth worker, we are blessed to work alongside you. We pray every week for all of you and for the young people in your care, specifically that they would grow into radical, lifelong disciples of Jesus Christ.

God Bless You,
Stephen Giles
Director of Kairos

Our summer girl’s trips this year were filled with beauty, challenge and sisterhood!

Our ninth and tenth grade girls canoed and camped in the beautiful Boundary Waters Canoe Area at the Minnesota-Canada border. Part of the beauty of this trip is that each girl is able to see that their own strength, infused with God’s grace, is able to accomplish more than they thought they could, all while serving one another and having fun!

The seventh and eighth grade girls went glamping and hiking in Upstate New York! The campsite at Stony Brook State Park was surrounded by gorges and waterfalls, and we hiked at ‘the Grand Canyon of the East’ at Letchworth State Park.

Our boys summer trips were full of adventure and brotherhood! A key Bible passage was Luke 6:45 “A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart.”

Virginia Backpacking (7th grade): We “lived in a cloud” all week, but it never rained heavily! Our group time was great, including some excellent Bible study.

Algonquin Canada Canoeing (8th grade): We have a new “lava cake” recipe (brownie mix with oil but no eggs). Weather was calm until the last day, allowing us to jump off cliffs twice.

Wyoming Backpacking (9th grade): The Wyoming trip is one-half road trip and one-half backpacking.

Kentucky Mission Trip (10th grade): The project was to re-floor an entire house in Pikeville, KY, and we enjoyed the surrounding mountains.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Thank you so much for your partnership with Kairos in our mission to bring young people into a life of deep and radical discipleship. I am pleased to present this brochure to you once again and excited for everything that we have in store.

Most of the pictures in this brochure were taken on Kairos trips from this past summer. Sorting through all the pictures filled me with gratitude as I considered all the ways God is using Kairos in the lives of our young people. We have spoken regularly about our desire to foster a love for the real through everything that we do. It was clear as I looked through the pictures from last summer that we are indeed providing simple, but powerful opportunities to love the real on all of our trips. In a world that continues to forget the real, these simple opportunities will continue to grow all the more powerful.

While our summer trips do not constitute everything that we do in Kairos, they are a major piece, and I’m pleased to say that last summer was our fullest summer yet. We are excited to share with you in the following pages all that we have planned for the coming year. It is our prayer that each of our trips and programs will continue to bear rich fruit for our young people and their families

God Bless You,
Stephen Giles
Director of Kairos

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

I am very excited to be able to share this brochure with you, and it is my hope that you find it to be a helpful resource. Inside, you will find information on almost everything Kairos has to offer, including parent and youth worker resources, the YES Retreat, Adventure Trips, Gap, and more.

One of our growing convictions as an organization is that we want to foster a love for the real, as opposed to the virtual and the artificial. This is one of the reasons we love our Adventure Trips and the opportunities for challenge they present. They help us love the real and embrace the challenges we face along the way.

In addition to our Adventure Trips, we’ve also begun to add some mission trips back into the mix. Our mission trips will be the 10th grade boys trip, and the 9th-10th grade girls trip (on alternating years). Mission trips are powerful opportunities that can produce real transformation and we’re excited to be offering them once again.

Our mission in Kairos is to awaken youth to a venturesome faith and to help them sell all to follow Jesus Christ. It is a joy to do this work and we are so grateful to do it alongside all of you.

God Bless You,
Stephen Giles
Director of Kairos

At Kairos, our mission is to awaken young people to a venturesome faith, and we believe that high-adventure outdoor experiences are an excellent starting point to achieve this aim. That’s why we’ve been expanding our girls’ programs by offering a growing suite of adventure trips. However, to make these trips possible, we need your help!

We’re raising $3,000 to expand our store of camping gear, including tents, sleeping bags, cookware, and backpacks. With your contribution, you can directly support our efforts to provide these essential supplies to our girls’ camping trips.

Thank you for your generosity!

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As a token of our appreciation, we’re offering a cool bumper sticker to anyone who makes a gift to our camping gear fundraiser. And for those who donate $500 or more, we’ll send you a Yeti Thermos with the Kairos logo.

Dear Friends:

Greetings in the beautiful month of July! We are very much in the midst of our summer trips. We just finished a 9th grade girls trip to New York state. They spent several days hiking in the beautiful mountains and did a exciting rafting excursion together. The second half of the trip was spent doing service with a charitable organization in New York City. We will report on that in a subsequent issue.

For the boys’ trips, we have two intrepid guys serving as Kairos Adventure Guides this summer. Thomas (Tommy) Bielejeski, from Minnesota, and John (Johny) Touhill, from New Jersey, are serving as staff for all four trips. See the back side of this page for a copy of their very busy summer—they only have six free days (probably spent doing laundry and sleeping)!

Adventure Guides program director Stephen Giles recruited and set up the schedule for this year’s Guides. He led a training week with them when they arrived in Lansing mid June, which included a hike along the Lake Michigan shoreline (see pictures). I was able to go with them on the hike—great time.

Brian LaLonde and Stan Mathay—our seasoned trip leaders—are heading the 7th, 8th, and 9th grade trips. Stephen is heading the 10th grade trip, where they will take nine young men to New Hampshire to do trail building work in the White Mountains. This will be a challenging trip, and will be a great opportunity for the young men to grow in brotherhood as they learn to embrace discomfort alongside one another (yup, we got nine boys to sign on!).

Thank you so much for your support of our mission of calling young people to Christ and helping them become life-long disciples. We very much appreciate your prayers and financial support!

Yours in Christ,

James Munk
Kairos Director

Dear Friends:

Last month, we reported on the Kairos Youth Equipped to Stand (YES!) Retreat that was held March 25-27. This month, we get to hear from three of the youth participants.

Some of the youth evaluations are straightforward, like this one from a teen:

“During the YES retreat, the Lord shared a word with me. He said that I am not broken. I feel like at some point in all our lives, we feel empty inside and broken. But God is here to tell us that we are healed and forgiven for our sins. Our sins don’t define who we are. God loves us as we are.”

Some of our youth had been struggling spiritually before the retreat, and experienced a new closeness with the Lord:

“I came to the YES Retreat tired emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually, I was coming out of a period of spiritual ‘dryness.’ I was struggling to pray consistently and then beating myself up mentally when I failed. I was getting discouraged because every time I resolved to get up early and pray, I found myself sleeping in. I got to the point that I didn’t really see the point in trying again. I didn’t see people I could relate to in that regard. At the beginning of the retreat, I asked the Lord for peace, joy, and perseverance (especially as I was leaving for a mission trip in Washington D.C. literally the morning after I got home from the retreat).

“Throughout the retreat, the Lord helped me enter worship in a way I had never been able to before. At a Christian summer camp several years ago, I asked for the gift of prophesy and was disappointed when I didn’t feel that I had received it right away. At the retreat, I felt the Lord speaking to me during worship in a new way and giving me not only a word, but also the courage to share it. I was able to share it with my YES small group.
“The talks and testimonies at the retreat were super relatable, and at multiple points I felt like the speakers were speaking directly to me. Overall, the Lord showed up big time and I left feeling joyful, peaceful, refreshed and ready to serve on the mission trip.”

Some of our youth merely wanted more!

“On Saturday night, the talk was about asking the Lord for a double portion. Later in our small groups we were asked what we wanted to receive from the Lord. I decided that I wanted a double portion of His Spirit, the Holy Spirit. I was the first one prayed over in my group, and it was very beautiful. One thing that I had been seeking though this retreat was to get to know Jesus as a living person, and not just as a far-off being.
“Receiving a double portion of His Spirit made His Presence more real to me, and all I did was ask for a gift. After I had been prayed over, I was able to pour out my double portion by praying over my small group members. This really struck me, because I realized the Lord gives us gifts so that we can bring Him to others by using the gifts He gives.”

Watching the Lord touch each one of our young people personally is a highlight of serving at the YES! Retreat. Bringing youth closer to Jesus is an amazing privilege. Thank you so much for your support; I am happy to be on mission with each of you.

Blessings on you and your families as we enter these summer months.

Your Brother in Christ,

James Munk

Kairos Director

Dear Friends,

Greetings in our Risen Christ! This month we have the pleasure of reporting on the March 25- 27, Youth Equipped to Stand (YES!) Retreat. Last year we had an in-person but smaller retreat; the year before that, it was only on-line. It was a joy to be back to a full YES! this year. We had 225 youth, and 128 staff – 353 total. The teens were from Georgia, Michigan, Minnesota, Ohio, New Jersey, California, Florida, Texas, Philadelphia, Toronto, and more. Stephen Giles, our YES! Retreat Director, gave us some highlights of this year’s retreat.

“Our theme this year was Double Portion, building the retreat around the story of Elijah and Elisha (II Kings 2:9-10). Many of our teens have been given very good things. We focused on choices our teens are and will be making: choosing for the Lord and choosing the good for themselves, and not just because their parents might be Christians. They need their own relationship with the Lord and they must choose for Him. The ‘double portion’ was unique to Elisha—it was not just ‘Elijah 2.0.’

“There was a cost to following the Lord for Elisha – there were no contingencies. Elisha killedhis yoke of oxen for a sacrifice to the Lord (I Kings 19: 19-21). We asked the teens what ‘oxen’ they might need to kill in their lives; the Lord calls us to a radical response (also a joy – Elisha and the people ate the oxen with celebration). Elisha had a lot of resources to use for the Kingdom and was a blessing to others. We reminded the teens that they also have been given a lot.

“Last year, the kids who were able to come to YES were ‘hungry’ because of not having a live retreat in 2020. They were open to whatever the Lord had for them. We noticed this year that the kids had lost some trust, were a bit more cynical; they had experienced some disappointments and needed to regain their confidence that the Lord had something for them. We could not do that for them; the Lord had to work in them.
“For their personal prayer, we encouraged them to boldly ask like Elisha did – ask big things of the Lord. There will be a greater cost from that but also great joy. We recognized that more talks could not accomplish this, prayer and ministry in the small groups moved things forward for many. Our small-group leaders were fantastic.

“The Lord also encouraged me in my own faith: I saw that God has greater things in mind for our youth than I can imagine. In our small groups, we saw obstacles being torn down and saw the youth give themselves to Him. We saw them grow in choosing for the Lord, even if that meant choosing some things that might be uncomfortable back home.

“For our breakout/workshop times, we had several topics relevant to youth from various situations: discernment and decision-making; friendship—guy-girl, guy-guy, and girl-girl; baptism in the Holy Spirit; using our gifts; personal prayer; ecumenism and what that looks like; embracing the struggle to live for Christ. We had two breakout times, so each teen could hit two different topics they were interested in.

“Our youth are on the threshold of adulthood. They are about to make choices that will affect the rest of their lives and even their children’s lives. We wanted to make them aware of the opportunity and responsibility present there. Our hope was to give them an appreciation (even a wonder) of what they are choosing at this point in their lives.

“A new feature to our YES! Retreats is an international dimension. There also will be YES retreats in Northern Ireland, the Philippines, and Mexico. Internationally, we are doing retreats with the same theme—Double Portion—and taking advantage of the main conference sessions put together for us by our Kairos International team. The breakout sessions will be geared to the location and the needs of the teens there (i.e., teens in Mexico may be dealing with some different stresses and challenges than the teens in Northern Ireland). We are very excited by this international work. The Lord is using YES! Retreats.”

Thank you for your support of outreach to the next generation! We are working in as many ways as we can to help the next generation truly be “equipped to stand.” As the world tips into greater darkness, we know our young people were created for “such a time as this.” It is a privilege to be part of reaching teens for Christ, calling them deeper, and equipping them to be the disciples of the Lord He has created them to be. May the Lord bless you and your service to Him; thanks again for standing with us by your prayers and financial support.

God Bless!

James Munk

Kairos Director